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Birth flower tattoos by month

A birth flower tattoo is permanent, and the meanings behind these flowers are older and more specific than most designs let on. Here is what each month's flower traditionally says, before it goes on skin.

By Jamey Weber, editor and developer at FusionStudios. Last reviewed .

Every month, flower and meaning

Primary and secondary birth flower per month, with the traditional meaning and the month's birthstone color.
MonthFlowerSecondaryTraditional meaningStone color to match
JanuaryCarnationSnowdropLove, fascination and distinctionDeep red
FebruaryVioletPrimroseFaithfulness, modesty and young loveViolet purple
MarchDaffodilJonquilNew beginnings, rebirth and joySea blue-green
AprilDaisySweet PeaInnocence, purity and loyal loveColorless
MayLily of the ValleyHawthornSweetness, humility and a return of happinessRich green
JuneRoseHoneysuckleLove, passion and devotionCreamy white
JulyLarkspurWater LilyOpen heart, positivity and strong bondsVivid red
AugustGladiolusPoppyStrength of character, integrity and remembranceOlive green
SeptemberAsterMorning GloryWisdom, faith and valourRoyal blue
OctoberMarigoldCosmosWarmth, creativity and devotionIridescent play-of-color
NovemberChrysanthemumPeonyFriendship, joy and long lifeGolden yellow to amber
DecemberNarcissusHollyHope, respect and good wishesSky blue to teal

Choosing between the primary and secondary flower

The primary flower is the one everyone recognizes, which is both its strength and its weakness: a June rose reads instantly and is also the most tattooed flower there is. The secondary flower is usually the more unusual silhouette, and for fine-line work that matters more than recognizability. Read both meanings on the birth flower pages before deciding.

Pairing a flower with a stone

The color column above is the point of the pairing. A birthstone gives you a defensible color choice from the same month, which is more interesting than picking a palette at random and easier to explain later. The month overview shows the stone, the flower and the two zodiac signs together, so you can see the whole set for a month at once.

A note on meaning

Floriography was a parlour convention, not a code with an authority behind it. Several nineteenth-century dictionaries were in circulation and they disagree with each other, which is why you will find a flower listed with different meanings in different places. If a particular meaning matters to you, pick the source you like and be aware that it is one reading among several.

Frequently asked questions

What is my birth flower?

It is the flower traditionally tied to your birth month, not your birth date. Every month has a primary flower and a secondary one, both with their own meanings in the Victorian language of flowers.

Can I combine a birth flower and a birthstone in one tattoo?

That is one of the most common combinations. The stone gives you a color and the flower gives you a shape, and both come from the same month, so the pairing needs no explanation.

What if I prefer the secondary flower?

Use it. The primary and secondary flowers are both part of the tradition, and the secondary is often the more distinctive shape to draw. Nothing about the tradition makes one more valid than the other.

Do birth flower meanings mean anything factual?

No. They come from Victorian floriography, a nineteenth-century social convention for sending messages with bouquets. They are cultural symbolism, offered for interest, and they say nothing about the person wearing them.

Sources and limits

The meanings below come from the Victorian language of flowers, a nineteenth-century convention with several competing published dictionaries. Different dictionaries assign different meanings to the same flower, so treat these as the common reading rather than as the definitive one. We have not reproduced any single dictionary and do not claim to.

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